When a child struggles with reading or math in secondary school, everyone thinks it’s a big deal. Parents get concerned about the child’s GPA, college opportunities, and eligibility for sports and student activities.
In elementary school, however, some parents have a more relaxed attitude. They think the stakes are lower and a poor grade here or an off quarter there is no big deal.
Those parents are wrong. It is a very big deal when children struggle in reading and math, even as early as kindergarten. Especially as early as kindergarten.
Study after study identifies giant gaps in student abilities as early as kindergarten. There are some kids who start school strong — with good pre-literacy skills and solid number sense. These kids excel or meet grade-level expectations from their first days in the classroom. Then there are the children who struggle. Maybe they didn’t have the benefit of a pre-school program, or maybe they are just late bloomers who aren’t into reading just yet. Maybe math is just harder for them, and in their crowded classrooms, they aren’t getting the individual attention they need to thrive.
Whatever the reason, these beginning gaps don’t just go away. In fact, research indicates that students who fall behind in elementary schoolnever catch up. Without a solid foundation in reading skills and a conceptual understanding of math, these kids struggle to keep up for the rest of their student lives. The achievement gaps that open in kindergarten and first grade only widen and grow as the years go by. Children who struggle to grasp fractions don’t go on to ace algebra without some kind of intervention or help. Kids who are slow, tedious readers in elementary school start to drown when they get to Charles Dickens in middle school.
This is why it’s essential for parents to ensure that their children establish a solid foundation in early reading, writing, and math skills. It’s not enough for your child to “just get by,” passing SOLs with basic proficiency and heaving a sigh of relief when another year’s done.
We’re big believers in establishing that solid foundation. Our elementary tutors are K-6 specialists, and we know how important it is for your child to not just pass, but to thrive and excel, to move confidently from one grade to the next, equipped with the verbal and number skills that he or she will need for years to come.
As a parent or grandparent, there’s a lot you can do to make sure your child or grandchild gets the help he needs NOW, rather than waiting and hoping the gaps will close.
- For starters, be patient and compassionate with a child who’s struggling in school. Young children are very sensitive to anything that brings attention to their shortcomings, so keep your tone light and encouraging.
- Get in touch with your child’s teacher. Find out what specific skills are difficult for your child, and ask the teacher what he or she recommends you do at home to support your child.
- Provide your child with a clean, clear space to do homework and study. Make sure this space has all necessary supplies nearby.
- Establish a daily routine for weekday homework and a weekend routine for study and review.
- Have your child read for an age-appropriate time every single day. There is no substitute for time spent reading.
- Reward your child for small steps and signs of progress.
Some parents and grandparents find that they alone are unable to help their child. Sometimes the math processes have changed, and sometimes the reading gaps are difficult to address – after all, most parents are not reading specialists. You might know your child struggles to read but don’t know how to help her.
If your child needs help NOW, please call us to talk about it, or get in touch here. Our in-home, one-on-one tutoring is an effective way to close the gaps. We have many strategies to share, and we’ve seen from years of experience how essential it is that the kids get help sooner rather than later.